He’s sort of the evolutionary David De Angelo, taking a similar, highly-theoretical approach, mixing in some good practical advice, and delivering top-notch material.
One fascinating thing about Wygant is that he offers products both for men and for women.
“The things we (women) love about the men in our lives are not necessarily the things they would tell us about themselves,” Jess tells Fast Company in a recent interview.
“A female friend is more likely to represent those things about her guy friend.” Jess, Meet Ken specifically targets women, enabling them to recommend eligible bachelors they know.
He believes that if you merely get out of your own head and are open to what a woman is doing, your most attractive self will reveal itself to them, and they will be attracted to you. Merely being present in the moment, refusing to calculate ahead, immediately puts you far ahead of most of the competition.Why do they DO that That’s right – that thing the man in your life (or the guy you like) does or says to you that feels so awful likely has nothing to do with you.It’s just him being “a guy.” And that thing you say or do that makes him super annoyed/upset/shut down/angry/fill-in-the-blank toward you is just you being a “woman.” You know, like talking too much about your problems (because it makes you feel so close to him – but makes him want to crawl under a rock), asking him to share his inner-most thoughts, wanting to plan a future together while he seems focused on the moment. Women are now graduating from college, law school, and medical school at a higher rate than men. It means, for many of us, we can no longer expect to “marry up” by finding a nice guy who is “older, richer, smarter, taller…” than we are.This stuff has been driving men and women nuts throughout the ages. This is partly to blame for the fact that more women are single now than ever in the history of the world…But it’s gotten a lot more complicated of late (I’m sure you’ve noticed). there are literally more educated, successful, amazing women all looking for love in the same (shrinking) pool of men. Reason #2: Thanks to the internet, and the incredible success of internet dating, there’s a (false) feeling in the culture that “love is just a mouse click away,” and that there’s an endless supply of fantastic people to find, meet, and fall in love with at all times. thus many singles have become ridiculously unrealistic in their expectations of who they’ll end up with, causing them to be too easily “spooked” on early dates, believing they can and should “have it all” in a mate…David Wygant is an easy going PUA with a southern California vibe.